Jul 8 2008 Joan Burnie Q I CANNOT get my ex-girlfriend out of my head. We split up several years ago on amicable terms when work left us in separate locations. As far as I know she is happy in a new relationship. I am genuinely pleased for her and would never dream of trying to break her and her partner up. My problem is that whenever I have started seeing other girls, I cannot help but compare them all to her. She has a great personality and I really miss her. To be honest, I haven't actually been out with many girls since we agreed it wasn't working. I think I'm scared of breaking up with someone again. I have wanted to text my ex many times just to tell her that I still care for her. But I don't want to cause unwanted disruption. But I'm also confused because I'm pretty certain that I don't want to get back together again....
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